When I correct you on my pronouns, I don’t want to hear about how I have no idea how difficult it is for you to change the way you speak.
|—||bell hooks (via queergiftedblack)|
just thought i had to do it right this time ;)
http://queerdictionary.tumblr.com/ is the location of the blog - which is not very active.
Ira Gray’s extremely disturbing history of rapes, rape apologism, and otherwise problematic material can be found in the Ira Gray tag on tumblr, but this post sums up some of his actions:
From the post: Ira Gray (AKA Ira Sanchez) is a rapist [account here] and abusive [account here] towards his partners. I’m pretty sure there are other accounts of abuse out there from his ex partners that I’m missing. Please reblog and link them.
Ira has been well respected and looked up to in many trans* spaces. Let him know this will no longer be. Please contact all organizations he is affiliated with and ask them to remove him in positions of authority as a speaker, facilitator, and a representative of gender and sexual minorities. Do NOT remain silent about this issue! He is counting on your silence to avoid all accountability and responsibility for what he has done. Let the survivors know that they have been heard and that you stand with them. Take the time to read what you can do to help here and read and reblog their open letter to Ira here.
For a list of all of the organisations and groups that are affiliated with Ira, check out this link: http://quinlanskyler.tumblr.com/post/25306662741
Take action against rapists and rape apologists. Get rapists out of queer spaces. Spread the word. Do not let people forget that Ira Dalton Gray - Ira Sanchez - or whatever else he is going by nowadays is a serial rapist.
^ TW: rape, IRA GRAY ^
And of course, isn’t that new show ‘the new normal’ about two white cis gay men? hmph.